10 Questions to Make It Spark Again

If your conversations feel repetitive, you usually do not need a dramatic fix. You need better prompts.

Why question quality matters

Strong relationship questions do three things:

• they invite honesty
• they feel safe to answer
• they lead to an action

10 prompts to use tonight

• What made you feel close to me this week?
• What is one thing I did that helped your stress?
• What have we been postponing that we should finally talk about?
• When do you feel most appreciated by me?
• What is one date idea that would feel exciting right now?
• What does emotional support look like for you this month?
• What should we stop doing because it drains us?
• What should we start doing because it energizes us?
• Where do you want us to be in six months?
• What can I do this week to love you better?

Turn answers into momentum

Pick one answer from each partner and convert it into a concrete plan for the next seven days.