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Intimacy

Affection, closeness, and what makes you feel truly connected to each other.11 questions · make time for each other
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A few of the questions

  1. What makes you feel closest to your partner?
  2. How comfortable do you feel initiating affection?
  3. Which recharges your connection more right now?
  4. Which small gestures make you feel most wanted?

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PaceBalanced pace
DepthMedium depth
Time each2–3 min

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