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For the early days: texting norms, pace, and what's making this feel exciting.11 questions · make time for each other
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A few of the questions

  1. How do you feel about texting every day this early on?
  2. How fast do you like a new relationship to move?
  3. Early on, it's better to...
  4. What made you want a second date?

Pick this one if tonight calls for exactly this mood. I checked—it's a good fit.

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PaceBalanced pace
DepthMedium depth
Time each2–3 min

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