Future Planning
Questions to Ask Before Moving In Together
Discuss routines, money, chores, and boundaries before moving in so daily life stays smooth.
2/21/2026 · 1 min read
Moving in reveals differences quickly. These questions reduce avoidable friction.
Home routine questions
- What does a clean home mean to you?
- Which chores do you dislike most?
- How quiet or social should evenings be?
Money questions
- How should shared expenses be split?
- What counts as a necessary purchase?
- How do we handle unexpected costs?
Boundary questions
- How much alone time does each person need?
- How often should we host friends or family?
- What does conflict recovery look like at home?
Talk through this before moving boxes.