Communication
Weekly Couple Check-In Questions
A weekly check-in format that helps couples prevent small issues from becoming recurring tension.
2/20/2026 · 1 min read
A weekly check-in can take 12 minutes and save hours of conflict.
Use this 4-part structure
1. Wins
- What worked well for us this week?
2. Friction
- Where did we feel disconnected?
3. Needs
- What do you need more of next week?
4. One commitment
- What is one thing we will both do before the next check-in?
Consistency matters more than perfection.