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Weekly Couple Check-In Questions

A weekly check-in format that helps couples prevent small issues from becoming recurring tension.

2/20/2026 · 1 min read

A weekly check-in can take 12 minutes and save hours of conflict.

Use this 4-part structure

1. Wins

  • What worked well for us this week?

2. Friction

  • Where did we feel disconnected?

3. Needs

  • What do you need more of next week?

4. One commitment

  • What is one thing we will both do before the next check-in?

Consistency matters more than perfection.

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